Well the days go by. We are still waiting for DH UK citizenship to arrive. According to some forums on the subject it takes around 8 - 10 weeks. we are in week 9 so helpfully by next week we will have it.
We are also still waiting for the tests results and some tests we still need to make. maybe in 3 weeks we will be ready with all test and documents..
In the meanwhile we still have time to think, read, research and change our minds over and over again.
so few days ago we thought OK from what we saw even to those it got complicated a little it didn't take more than 15 weeks in India eventually so we thought we will go for it and register with UK organisation so if it will not work with India we might be ready with UK nice SM.
but than few days past and we thought again of all the precious time with friend and family we might miss if we will be away in India with a new born baby for the first 3 months. and what if something will happen and the child get sick... and what if this and what if that...
So the new thoughts are maybe to give it a try to find a nice surrogate lady in UK and if it doesn't happen within X months so that we try in India....so maybe I will have to change the name of the blog....
Showing posts with label surrogacy in India. Show all posts
Showing posts with label surrogacy in India. Show all posts
Wednesday, 29 June 2011
Thursday, 23 June 2011
New day new thoghts
every day bring something new. Well we didn't even really started our journey but the stress already build up. i think because we didn't yet chose and confirm the path we will take we still have hesitations.
yes we are pretty much in peace with the fact that surrogacy is the way for us but from here there are 3 ways we can choose. before we started to write the blog we discussed and checked other options of UK and USA and India. and it looks like we settle with India. But today suddenly after reading some more blogs and forums suddenly the thoughts about spending 12 weeks or more in India with a new born with stress of the legal red tape looked scary..... So we briefly discussed it again and agreed to think it over until it will be decision time (when DH will get his British nationality.
We will see how will i wake up tomorrow.....
i didn't think i will write so much before even starting the procedure. I meant just to write updates but its kind of feel good to take it all out on the keyboard
yes we are pretty much in peace with the fact that surrogacy is the way for us but from here there are 3 ways we can choose. before we started to write the blog we discussed and checked other options of UK and USA and India. and it looks like we settle with India. But today suddenly after reading some more blogs and forums suddenly the thoughts about spending 12 weeks or more in India with a new born with stress of the legal red tape looked scary..... So we briefly discussed it again and agreed to think it over until it will be decision time (when DH will get his British nationality.
We will see how will i wake up tomorrow.....
i didn't think i will write so much before even starting the procedure. I meant just to write updates but its kind of feel good to take it all out on the keyboard
Wednesday, 22 June 2011
what can you do when you have nothing to do
In the past years we, well specially myself, i got used to this auto pilot race of the IVF and ED treatments.
It was always from one treatment to another so i was always before or after a treatment. always something to check and test ans wait for and now its looks like it might take a while before thing will get going.
We just made few blood test so we can have them updated before we can enroll and we are schedule to some other tests.
We are also waiting for my DH British citizenship certificate and passport - without this we will not be able to get a passport for the baby . funny to talk about this when we didn't even registered with a clinic yet but this how it is - isn't it?
So what else actually we need to do?
1. I will also apply for British nationality. so got to learn for the test as i need to pass it in July and apply for my naturalisation in august.
2. wait for the test results and do some more test
3. wait for the referral letter from my fertility Dr.
4. scan and prepare all our medical records for submitting
5. read some more blogs and learn from others experience
6. ask some more questions that we didn't ask yet
7. consult with solicitor
Its actually looks like a lot when i put it like this so i better start doing something
By the way - if there is anyone that like us is british naturalised and did surrogacy in India we would love to hear about your experience.
It was always from one treatment to another so i was always before or after a treatment. always something to check and test ans wait for and now its looks like it might take a while before thing will get going.
We just made few blood test so we can have them updated before we can enroll and we are schedule to some other tests.
We are also waiting for my DH British citizenship certificate and passport - without this we will not be able to get a passport for the baby . funny to talk about this when we didn't even registered with a clinic yet but this how it is - isn't it?
So what else actually we need to do?
1. I will also apply for British nationality. so got to learn for the test as i need to pass it in July and apply for my naturalisation in august.
2. wait for the test results and do some more test
3. wait for the referral letter from my fertility Dr.
4. scan and prepare all our medical records for submitting
5. read some more blogs and learn from others experience
6. ask some more questions that we didn't ask yet
7. consult with solicitor
Its actually looks like a lot when i put it like this so i better start doing something
By the way - if there is anyone that like us is british naturalised and did surrogacy in India we would love to hear about your experience.
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